Gottman Level 2 Trained

Under clinical supervision of
Certified Gottman Therapist, Anna McDonald LCSW#100937

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I’m here to walk alongside you.

Prior to becoming a therapist, I was a public school teacher for a decade, working with teens during a period of their lives often filled with angst and uncertainty. I developed a unique skillset in explaining complex concepts, approaching challenges from multiple perspectives, and individualizing support for each student. Now I get to use those skills in the context of therapeutically supporting clients with their most vulnerable obstacles, and not just the Pythagorean Theorem.

My personal journey with therapy began when I started avoiding sleep due to anxiety about what the next day would bring. Therapy helped me first gain awareness of my own confusion between suffering and growth. This work empowered me to make the necessary changes to live a life I look forward to waking up to.

Then I became a parent, which led to a litany of other life changes. I learned that rather than just “trying harder”, I had to express what I needed in a way that maintained my connection with my loved ones. It’s easy to get lost in the everyday busyness of life, which can lead to more assumptions between partners. It takes both intention and tools to maintain an understanding of each other, and support through this transition to parenthood helps the whole household feel better.

Together, we can create space for change and understanding.

Healing often comes through relationships; having someone witness and respond to my experience with understanding and clarity is where the transformation develops. My commitment to you is creating a therapeutic space that is grounded in authenticity, empathy and respect. Together, our work will foster resiliency for the challenges of life while building the capacity to pursue the life you’ve dreamed of.

AMFT #163992, APCC #22932

Chad Sykes

Katie Pulverman AMFT Gottman Level 2 Santa Barbara Therapist
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because I have been there. 

As a Partner: Pre-marital couples counseling was incredibly beneficial for my wife and I; we thought we already knew each other deeply after dating for three years, but couples counseling allowed us to take a more nuanced look at our values, stressors, and expectations. Now a decade into our marriage (plus five homes, four degrees, two kids, and one dog), and being well-versed in Gottman strategies, I have lived the benefits of hard work, necessary communication skills and healthy practices to nurture a marriage and friendship. 

As a Dad: After having two young children of my own, I can personally attest to the mental toll, unexpected dilemmas, and identity crises that can occur during early parenthood. Having children can be one of the greatest joys and most demanding responsibilities of life, which make it an ideal time to receive support. In working with parents, I get to support them through one of life’s most major transitions. Learning how to negotiate your individual and family needs and dreams, implementing healthy communication, and receiving parenting support allows you to make this transition feeling connected and attuned.

With Anxiety: My personal journey with therapy began with being unable to fall asleep at night for fear of the anxiety that would follow the next morning. Anxiety can often go unnoticed, creating a silent suffering that shrinks a person’s life to their fears, avoidances, and worried thoughts. I’ve worked to implement the concrete tools necessary for transforming the anxious experience, as well as incorporating the deeper relational and emotional healing required to build a full, joyful life. 

I can empathize with what you are going through

Chad's Experience & Education

Certifications
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  • AMFT #163992
  • APCC #22932
  • Gottman Level 2 Trained
  • California Clear Teaching Credential
Education and License
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  • Pacifica Graduate Institute, MA in Counseling Psychology with Emphasis in Depth Psychology
  • Vanguard University, MA in Education with Emphasis in Curriculum and Instruction
  • Vanguard University California Preliminary Secondary Teaching Credential, Foundational Mathematics with English Learner Authorization
  • Westmont College, BA in Sociology with Minor in Economics & Business, Magna Cum Laude and Outstanding Senior–Sociology

Professional Experience
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  • Westmont College, Counseling and Psychological Services, Clinical Trainee
  • Hospice of Santa Barbara, Grief Counselor Trainee
  • Middle School Math Teacher, 10 years


chad@mindfulsolutionstherapy.info
(805) 705-6479

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Chad's  Fee  Schedule

Pricing: 
 $160 per 50 minute session,
$240 per 80 minute session
Limited Reduced Fee Sessions Available

Payments Accepted:

Credit cards accepted and
superbills can be provided

Chad's Contact Information:

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A little about Chad:
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"As a professional, Chad is vested in the success of his community , diligent, prepared, and conscientious. As a person Chad shines humor onto sharp corners, consciously makes his inner world available for us to see him, and cares for all that is in his presence. 

Chad gently and consistently mirrors a sense of aliveness for his clients who may need to lean in and find their path back to vitality"

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